Honest, practical support for quietly neurodivergent people
The standard networking advice – work the room, schmooze, follow up – was designed for a particular kind of person. For those of us who are quietly neurodivergent, that model doesn’t just feel uncomfortable, it can feel impossible. This article explores why, and what a slower, more honest alternative looks like in practice.
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For many neurodivergent people, “just popping to the shop” isn’t simple at all. This piece unpacks why supermarkets and high streets are so draining, and offers practical ways to lower the sensory load — plus gentle scripts for explaining it to partners, family and housemates.
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Job applications are hard work for most people. When you’re quietly neurodivergent, they can feel like an extra unpaid job. You’re writing forms and preparing for interviews while also deciding whether to mention autism, ADHD or related differences at all. This guide explores the real fear of being filtered out or treated as a box-ticking exercise, and offers gentle, practical ideas on when to disclose, when not to, and how to ask for adjustments in plain English.
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Deciding whether to tell people you’re neurodivergent can feel huge. This article explores the pros and cons of disclosure with family, at work and in community roles, and shares how I’ve handled it so far as an autistic adult, employee, PhD student, parent and Beaver Scout Leader.
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Many autistic and ADHD students care deeply about their work but still feel unable to start. Drawing on my own experience of working full time, studying part time and raising a family, this article explains why studying can feel impossible and offers tiny, realistic ways to move forward without expecting a perfect student brain.
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Many neurodivergent people look calm and capable at work while quietly falling apart afterwards. This article names that pattern of “passing as fine”, explores why autistic and ADHD adults so often do it, and offers small, realistic ways to make work 5–10% kinder to your brain.
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Many neurodivergent people look “fine” on the outside while quietly unravelling underneath. This start-here page explains what I mean by “quietly neurodivergent”, who the site is for, and how to use it in a low-pressure, low-energy way.
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